Sefer Shinuyim ספר שינוּים The Book of Changes |
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A "Life of Love" יפה שעה אחת של אהבה יותר מאלף שנים של שנאה "One moment of love gives more life and is worth more than a 1000 years of hate". The Essence of ספר שינוים - Sefer Shinuyim Book of Changes The 7 aspects of "LOVE" from Sefer Shinuyim "The book of changes" that explains that the ability to change is only when one understands the true meaning of "A Life Of Love" - אהבה are :- #1 Understanding the meaning of "LOVE", explaining that everything that happens in our lives, originates from the emotions and energies of LOVE within our "Heart and Soul". Understanding that the only motivation to live and a true desire for life in this world is through LOVE. #2 Understanding the difference between physical love and spiritual love. Understanding the difference of LOVE that is conditional and unconditional, and hence understanding why love either lasts forever or is temporary. #3 Understanding that ALL emotions are degrees and levels of LOVE energy, and how to identify & convert hatred, jealousy, bitterness and anger into LOVE energy. Understanding why "opposites attract" in love and why people deceive themselves especially over their true love emotions of the heart. #4 Understanding the concept of "TRUE LOVE" that connects ones soul to Spirit world, which energizes ones soul with the יניקה מלמעלה DIVINE source of all pure creative physical and spiritual energy of LOVE. #5 Understanding how to find ones true SOULMATE, and the concept that the inexplicable energy of LOVE from ones soulmate is a wonderful gift given to ones soul from the Spiritual world. In contrast to the temporary and superficial love generated from the external physical existence and beauty, which never lasts. #6 Understanding that a "life of love" brings energy, love and healing to many peoples lives. This pure spiritual "LOVE" energy flows through an enlightened soul helps people all over the world, and connects this physical world to souls in the spiritual world. Everything we have and everything we are, is identified in our soul by the amount of sincere LOVE we glow and radiate, in this life, from previous lives and in the future eternal spiritual world. #7 Understanding the eternal spiritual law of love; that LOVE can never be destroyed. The DIVINE source of energy for every single soul, everything in this physical universe and in the DIVINE Spirit world is the ETERNAL DIVINE LOVE, which can never be destroyed. No one or nothing can ever destroy this true love energy - this is the eternal spiritual law of love. Everything created by GOD exists for eternity, but it can be destroyed in this physical world by the evil of man. The only way to protect our souls from destruction is by connecting to the DIVINE source of LOVE, which guarentees eternal spiritual life. Understanding the most important principle and spiritual law of Change, יפה שעה אחת של אהבה יותר מאלף שנים של שנאה - "One moment of love gives more life and is worth more than a 1000 years of hate". The foundational essence of ספר שינוים - Sefer Shinuyim Book of Changes, is that through one thought of LOVE, connecting ones soul to the DIVINE source of spiritual energy of LOVE one can change and have power more than 1000 years of hate and destruction. We shall explain each of the 7 important aspects of "LOVE" as explained from Sefer Shinuyim "The Book of Changes", which guide and teach a person exactly how to change ones life through the power of "LOVE", and how to change ones attitude in order to find true "LOVE" with a constant feeling of the amazing radiant glow of "LOVE", "LOVE of GOD", "LOVE of Spirit world" and "LOVE of everyone of creations of GOD", whoever and whatever they are or have done.
1. Introduction "What is LOVE?" "Love" is the most amazing inexplicable feeling and emotion that we can ever sense with our physical body. "Love" energy brings life vitality, strength, courage and a desire to want to live life to the fullest potential. "Love" is the collective and common energy that connects each person to each other in the whole world. It connects our physical body with the spiritual soul, to the Spirit world and to GOD. "Love" is the emotion that is sensed through the senses of sight, smell, sound, taste, touch. The highest form of "Love" is sensed directly within our soul from other souls and from spirit world. "Love" is an energy that can only be fully felt when it is shared with other people. It is impossible to contain "Love" energy selfishly for oneself, (that is why selfish people cannot find true love), the only way to feel "love" energy in ones life is when one connects with other people, with spirit world and with GOD, with love. "Love" gives life and is the "meaning of life". When one has "LOVE"- one has everything, without LOVE one has nothing. Pure "Love" is a spiritual energy and therefore is always completely FREE, no one can buy "true love", synthetic and superficial love always costs money! "The Heart Beats for Love" The heart is physical centre of ones emotions especially of "LOVE" energy. Whenever one feels the energy of "LOVE" ones heart starts to beat faster. The faster ones heart beats the more emotional energy one senses, until one feels the overwhelming loving energy that takes ones breath away. Whenever a persons finds there heart beating faster this is a sign that one is receiving energy of LOVE. Whether it is a physical attraction of love or a spiritual energy of love or someones loving thoughts who are thinking of you, this is indicated by a persons heart beating faster in excitement. The sense of anticipation in most peoples life is felt by ones heart beating faster, the secret is to recognise that this energy is NOT trying to overwhelm or make a person "panic" but it is a gift of LOVE energy into ones soul, and one should appreciate this energy and use it wisely sharing it selflessly to LOVE people. Just remember to take a deep breathe, dont feel anxious and enjoy whatever is going to happen in ones life, now that one has this energy of "love". Remember the purpose of this overwhelming excitable "LOVE" energy indicated by faster heart-beat is in order for one to desire to give LOVE and share this "LOVE" selflessly with someone else. Pure "LOVE" energy is only truly felt when sharing with other people, "LOVE" can never be hoarded and kept for ones self, as this blocks the flow of more "love" energy coming into ones life. Sadly, many people find "love" energy too overwhelming and try to find ways to suppress such "love" emotions, by drinking alcohol, smoking cigarettes etc , but once a person learns to handle this energy one can have an amazingly energized life of LOVE. So NEVER block or suppress such lovely emotions when one finds ones heart beating faster, simply take a few deep breathes and learn to LOVE ! The Beginning of Life is LOVE Every single physical living entity in the whole world is created from "LOVE". Even hateful and depressed parents have a moment excitable overwhelming "LOVE" energy, when they "make love", when there hearts beat fast full of LOVE, that is needed in order to create a child. Motivation for "Living Life" is LOVE As explained in the chapter of "motivation" in order to motivate oneself to "wake-up" and live life with a true desire for life is through LOVE. It is therefore imperative for everyone to learn to desire LOVE in order to drive and motivate a person into purposeful actions. "יפה שעה אחת של אהבה יותר מאלף שנים של שנאה" "One moment of love gives more life and is worth more than a 1000 years of hate" Life is about the moments of excitement when you are truly loving, those loving moments are the true energy of creative life energy. The more moments of true selfless love one has then, the more exciting and enjoyable a persons life is and the more energy of "aliveness" a person feels within their soul. True "LOVE" energy is actually connecting ones soul with the eternal DIVINE energy of life from Spirit world and bringing down a יניקה מלמעלה, a life sustaining energy from the realms of Spirit world. Life is not about the number of "breathes" you take during your life, but about the amount of moments that take your breath away ! People who never "want" to love are dead, the only emotion that connects our physical existence to our spiritual soul and connects to the DIVINE source of all energy is LOVE, that is the LOVE emotions from the heart - all the "fast heartbeats" of LOVE. Love blockage and depression When people block and refuse to allow "love" energy into their lives they are blocking their own life-energy (יניקה מלמעלה) and committing "spiritual suicide", even if by some "good fortune" of Divine intervention they suddenly are given a chance to "love", they find that the overwhelming sense of "love" is too much for their depressed soul to handle. Depressed people prefer to thwart and block their own lives through their bad attitude and prefer to be depressed without "love", than overwhelmed with an aliveness of "love" energy, so they act to "self-destroy" any opportunities of "love" in their lives, which may even cause them to miss their own soulmate ! So remember NEVER block any emotions of the heart !
2. Understanding the difference between Physical Love and Spiritual Love כל אהבה שהיא תלויה בדבר בטל דבר, בטלה אהבה "Whenever LOVE depends upon something physical and it passes away, then the LOVE passes away too. When LOVE does not depend upon something physical then the LOVE will never pass away. An example of love depending upon something physical is sexual attraction of beauty such as physical desire of Amnon for Tamar. And an example of the love that is not dependant on anything physical is the spiritual friendship and love of David and Jonathan". Pirkei Avos Chapter 5 Mishne 16 Physical Love Every person, every place and in fact every single object in this physical world contains an energy of LOVE. Every single entity in this world has been created with an energy of LOVE. The strength of each person, place or object is dependant on the amount of LOVE energy that was used to create it and the amount of LOVE energy that we attach in our mind and soul to it, togther with the continual emotional "LOVE" energy that flows to that entity, conversely weakness is defined by the "blockage" of LOVE energy which is reflected in negative emotions of hate, jealousy or bitterness. Before we define the difference between Physical LOVE and Spiritual LOVE, we need to explain the 5 categories of all entities in this universe, with their potential to affect our emotions of the heart, each with different level of creative LOVE energy. This explanation is the essence of פרק שירה "Perek Shira", which emphasizes that the way to come to appreciate the gift of life, and finding a true LOVE of GOD is to reflect on ALL of the wonderous creations in the Universe. The 5 Categories of Physical Entities in this Physical World Firstly let us explain the 5 categories/levels of which every entity in this universe can be classified into, which defines the amount of energy it has, and therefore the amount of "LOVE" energy that flows in/out and that can potentially flow through as part of the continual creative life-cycle of this wonderful universe of LOVE.
1. דוֹמם Inanimate objects created at the creation of the Universe, such as the Sun, Moon, Stars and Planets, earth, sand, stones, mountains, the sea etc., (which includes all the elements of the "periodic table"!). Everything that was here before we were born and after we die ! This category never change their energy or state, and remain the same as the day they were created by GOD at the creation.
It is because they were created by GOD - the DIVINE creator of this whole universe and have been unchanged since the creation for almost 6000 years that they contain a "magical" pure beauty, of amazing energy. Everyone loves to see the inate and unspoilt beauty of the snow-topped mountains, it has an energy to fill ones mind and soul with a real "LOVE" of the beauty of "nature".
Looking at an amazing sunset by the sea and allowing our souls to sense, feel and connect with "LOVE" to the DIVINE creator who made this wonderful world, allows our souls to be energized with LOVE. Simply looking at nature, (even without "thinking") energizes & enlivens everyones soul, hence the reason why people love "the sea", "the mountains" and the countryside, seeing and appreciating the amazing natural beauty in this world created by GOD. This category of דוֹמם - "Inanimate objects" have the inherent benefit that they were created with purest DIVINE creative energy, and have never changed since the "CREATION", millions of people from hundreds of generations have been seeing these places of natural beauty, and have engraved on their memories and souls, a specific energy of LOVE for these places and objects. The specific physical LOVE for such natural beauty is actually a Spiritual energy of LOVE that our soul senses and receives.
2. צוֹמח - Every kind of tree, plant, flower, fruit, vegatable and grain that grows from seeds. This category has been implanted from creation, but continues in a cycle of life and death, needing sustenance from the sun, rain and wind in order to grow. This category is a constant and daily gift of sustenance from GOD which provides each living entity on earth with food to live.
The physical love we feel towards vineyards, growing fruit and all kinds of produce is a feeling that we are LOVED by GOD and that we have been given food. The physical love we have for growing flowers is a sense of awe and amazment that from nothing such beauty is created from seeds.
The colours of the food we eat such as red strawberries instills in our heart and soul a sense of LOVE. When we think of the amazing colours of the creation we feel alive with an excitement and a instintive LOVE for life. Especially the colours and aromatic scent of flowers instinctively instills emotions of LOVE into everyones heart.
3. חי , Every living animal, bird, fish, insect, etc., all life that moves and reproduces with its pair. This category of LIVING animals, live and die with the same cycle of as humans, they have senses that guide them in order to sustain their own survival. They have a soul which has emotions with their unique character. They live, reproduce and survive out of an instinctive LOVE energy.
Their instinctive LOVE energy of the animal kingdom, gives them an energy to LIVE. They survive by keeping to their own group of animals which identifies their specific purpose in life. Very few animals interact with other groups with LOVE. Any interaction with other kinds of animals is AVOIDED, and in some cases is considered a threat to their survival, so anger and hatred, even violence until one animal kills another animal is possible in order to defend their own survival. This is an important definition of the living animal kingdom, as the Book of Reincarnation Sefer Gilgulim explains that some human souls are forced to reincarnate as animals in order to learn the lesson of compassion, love and selfless service. As many humans fail in life, because of their selfish arrogance. Hence their soul will need to learn the lesson in another lifetime as an animal.
The love from the "Animal Kingdom", teaches that all living people should be compassionate and loving. The interaction of good energy between all the creations of GOD is through LOVE. Some animals instinctively show respect and love for everyone, and live a life whose purpose is to radiate love. Cats which bury their faeces, keep themselves clean, get rid of filthy rats/mice, and continually REFLECT an energy of selfless LOVE are wonderful examples of LOVE The word "reflect" is important as, cats & all animals are sensitive; in the same way we treat them they reflect our emotions, if we are loving then they are loving in return. Cats teach that animals and humans can interact only with a common energy of LOVE. This is important to note, as humans "reflect" each others energy, hateful people reflect hate, loving people reflect love. This is the reason why all the great spiritual leaders loved to look after animals from the times of Moshe, King David and likewise the reason why "single" people in our generation should have a cat as a pet, to learn how to show selfless love and compassion as in our generation "single" materialistic cold-hearted people cannot find true love as they have simply closed their emotions of "LOVE".
4. מדבר , Human beings that are given the power of speech. In exactly the same way animals live, survive, reproduce, nations and peoples of the world keep to their own group/nation as an identity of their soul. Humans use the power of speech to communicate and connect with people of their same group and category.
Although people are attracted to physical beauty, nontheless without the ability to talk and communicate, they cannot connect with each other. The power of speech connects human beings, hence the reason why relationships either succeed or fail based on the ability to TALK to each other. When dialogue of communication stops, the relationship dies. Human beings that can't be bothered talking to other people are "committing suicide", as they are blocking energy coming into and out of their soul, the Human soul needs to talk in order to energize oneself physically and spiritually. Remember that the principle difference between the LIVING and DEAD is the ability to speak and communicate. This is why "GOOD souls" when they are physically dead are in fact ALIVE as they are able to communicate from Spirit world to other righteous people in this world. Loving and selfless kind people, love to talk and communicate with everyone with a warmth loving affectionate, friendly and happy nature. Whereas selfish and "emotionally dead" humans refuse to communicate with other people, hence they block a life energy. Such "living dead" would never think of replying to emails or making an effort to call anyone, they expect other people to communicate with them and give them life energy, hence by isolating and alienating themselves and refusing to "COMMUNICATE", they disconnect with "life energy" and are considered "dead". The inherent "life-giving" quality of human beings is the ability to communicate, which enables other people to understand, listen and connect themselves to each other. Without this ability to transfer our to thoughts and ideas from our mind & soul, we are the same as animals. If we wish to be classified as "humans" then we must learn to use the power of speech wisely and frequently.
5. יהוּדי Elevated spiritual souls that act as servants of spirit world and help to energize other peoples lives through their souls energy and spiritual connection with the eternal and Divine wellspring of LOVE. This category of "Human Beings", who are the spiritually-minded person, completely connected to SPIRIT world, constantly working in "Selfless Service", who live a chosen spiritually motivated pathway, focusing on the higher purpose in life. They understand that this physical life is just a transitory short journey within the much larger context of the infinate spiritual world and UNIVERSE created by a DIVINE GOD. When a person recognises that we are all children of GOD, and merely a spec of dust of insignificance in the great scheme of life, and yet on a specific mission in life with a spiritual purpose, then automatically a person has a desire to LOVE all people with compassion and unconditional LOVE, in the same way the DIVINE creator loves every single soul.
The Concept of Duality The Concept of "Duality" means that everything in this physical world has TWO energies, a physical energy and a spiritual energy. Most people who live a physical and materialistic existence will only consider the physical energy. Souls in Spirit world will only see the spiritual energy. Our purpose whilst we are living in this world, is to learn to see and sense BOTH the physical and spiritual energy within everything. Allowing our physical eyes to see and enjoy the images, instilling in our soul an energy of "Peace of Mind" and an energy of LOVE out of appreciation for the spiritual creative energy of GOD. Spiritual Love & Physical Love Physical energy is temporary and last for only a short time, hence physical love energy never lasts. In the same way we are only physically alive for a short period of time, similarly physical love is temporary, for example, the physical "skin deep" beauty of most woman only lasts between 15 to 35 years from when a woman matures, unlike the spiritual beauty, which is radiated from a good, sweet, kind, spiritually-minded woman with a love that lasts for eternity ! Spiritual energy lasts forever and for eternity, as it communicates and embeds itself within our soul, such eternal emotional LOVE energy is carried over from previous liftimes and carried onwards to future reincarnations. We shall explain this further in #5 Soulmates below, the inexplicable LOVE connection of soulmates which lasts forever. "How to Make Love Last Forever" In order to make anything last forever, it must be SPIRITUAL, and its energy needs to have made an indelible mark on ones mind, thoughts and soul. Anything that only has a physical energy will fade away and die. In order to instill an energy of LOVE that will last forever, it must by energized with a spiritual emotional LOVE energy. Everyones heart only beats for LOVE, ONLY those moments in which are our heart beats fast with an overwhelming energy of emotional excitement, are those moments which our SOUL will remember FOREVER. When a person is lying on the death bed and reflecting on all the moments of their life, they only remember the moments of extreme emotions when their heart "beats fast". Sefer Shinuyim in the chapter of "happiness" explains that EVERY person has at least 8 exceedingly happy moments in life, which are spiritual gifts given by GOD to everyone, in order that a person should know the sense of spiritual eternal LOVE energy. Unfortunately, many depressed people cannot cope with this gift of overwhelming love energy, and find ways to block and suppress their emotions. Whereas the "spiritually enlightened" person uses this amazing energy to learn to develope their soul to be ALIVE all the time with a continual eternal emotional LOVE energy. A person who is truly spiritual, remembers everything of everyday with joy and happiness, as each day brings a wonderful new energy of LOVE and emotions that is unforgettable lasts forever. In each of the 5 classifications of everything in the universe - as above, try and learn to energize ones soul with a loving excitement. For example, imagine that you only have 10 seconds left in your life to see, whatever you see in these 10 seconds will stay with your soul forever, by appreciating the wonderful colours in nature, flowers, fruit, sunshine, stars and the sky will make a person learn to "WAKE UP" spiritually, instead of living life like a dormant robot forgetting to appreciate the gift of vision ! When a person "wakes up" emotionally, ones heart will start to beat faster with an excitement and a desire to live a loving life, which gives such energy that makes it irreversably impossible for a person to ever feel depressed and unloved again. A pure Spiritual Eternal Love energy will energize a persons soul, exuding and radiating a creative life love energy which becomes part of the creative life cycle and energizes many peoples lives, such a LOVE energy will last for ETERNITY, even after a person passes from this physical world. Hence the fundamental concept that #5 SOULMATES have an inexplicable eternal deep LOVE energy for each other, and as we explain in #4 True Spiritual Love is a love energy that lasts forever and connects people in this physical world with those good loving souls in spirit world.
3. Understanding that ALL Emotions are Levels of LOVE energy מדרש בראשית רבה פרשה נה עמדו על עניין זה: "וישכם אברהם בבוקר ויחבוש את חמורו" אמר רבי שמעון בן יוחאי: אהבה מקלקלת את השורה ושנאה מקלקלת את השורה, אהבה מקלקלת את השורה דכתיב: "וישכם אברהם בבוקר..." ולא היה לו כמה עבדים? אלא אהבה מקלקלת את השורה The Medrash in Genesis, explains that LOVE makes a person break all the rules and normal rational behaviour of life. Out of sincere LOVE to serve GOD, Abraham cleaned and saddled his own donkey, even though he had many servants to do this for him. His LOVE to serve GOD, gave him the energy and excitement to wake up early in the morning with a life vitality, breaking all ettiquette. אהבה מקלקלת את השורה שנאמר: בראשית מו "ויאסור יוסף מרכבתו ויעל לקראת ישראל אביו" וכי לא היה ליוסף כמה עבדים ? אלא אהבה מקלקלת את השורה. שנאה מקלקלת את השורה דכתיב: שמות יד "ויאסור את רכבו" ולא היה לו כמה עבדים ? אלא שנאה מקלקלת השורה. Similarly Joseph, in excitement and out of LOVE to meet his father, got up early and prepared his own horse. Indicating that LOVE breaks ALL barriers and ettiquette. ושנאה מקלקלת את השורה שנאמר: במדבר כב "ויקם בלעם בבוקר ויחבוש את אתונו" ולא היה לו כמה עבדים ? אלא שנאה מקלקלת את השורה Conversely HATRED and negative emotions cause a person to react irrationally, Bilaam who was paid to curse the jewish people by king of Moav, behaved wildly and out of character, as his emotions of hatred destroyed his own normal rational behaviour. Introduction Emotions of the heart "LOVE and HATRED" break all normal rules and ettiquette of life All emotions of the heart whether "LOVE" or "HATE", positive or negative, every single emotion we feel and sense with our HEART and soul, has the power to make an indelible mark on our SOUL, to the extent that it gives our soul the power to CHANGE. Every single emotion from our heart has the power to change our lives and soul irreversably, hence it is vitally important for everyone to understand and use this emotional power of our hearts wisely, to make changes out positive LOVE and not out of negative fear or jealousy. In order to comprehend "LOVE" we need to understand the 2 categories of inherent EMOTIONS that every human senses. This is signified by the 2 types of people in the world, the "Honest" group and the "Deceitful" group. The "Honest" group fundamentally live with LOVE energy, whilst the "Deceitful" group fundamentally live with negative emotions of hate, jealousy, bitterness and anger as this their way to steal energy from, intimidate and control the "Honest" group. If a sensitive person from the "Honest group" has acquired any negative emotions then they have done this by "transference" from a person of the "Deceitful" group, the simple remedy is to cancel out any Loss by "Transference", which will restore the peaceful loving energy and dissolve the destructive hateful energy dumped on them by other peoples negative emotions. This explains the reason and purpose why "opposites attract" in love, and why people deceive themselves especially over their true love emotions in the heart, as a person lives in this physical world to learn lessons from difficult people who "oppose" their soul, before they are ready to find true and perfect love from their soulmate, which is in perfect peace and harmony with them. We shall then explain how to convert oneself from the "Deceitful" to the "Honest" group, thereby having physical and spiritual closure on the past, leaving behind the bad emotions and continuing a life of only 100% pure LOVING emotions, a life of wholesome creative LOVE. Firstly let us understand the two categories of emotions by understanding the two categories of people in this world:- 2 Types of People in the World As we explained on the page of "Spirit & Guidance" there are 2 types of people in the world :- The first and most wonderful category is the "HONEST" group, which basically means when you are nice to them they are nice in return, when you are horrible to them they are horrible in return. When you ask them a question, you are given the honest answer in return. The intrinsic goodness of this group, will always make you feel alive and happy. The honest group person, will always find ways to be nice and compliment, saying nice constructive words, looking for the goodness in people, and they will always exude, radiate love and happiness, even in the face of adversity. They will always find ways to create loving energy and NEVER "steal" energy from others by hateful, negative or destructive thoughts, words or actions. Whereas the other group of people in this world are the "DECEITFUL" (liars) group of people, which basically means when you are nice to them they are horrible in return, when you are horrible to them they are nice in return. When you ask them a question, you are given lies and deceit in return. The intrinsic deceit and twistedness of this group, will always make you feel drained and sad. Such people do not exude or radiate any kind of selfless LOVE and are usually very closed and selfish with their energies of emotions, they are called the "Living dead" as they block and close their own emotions of life and LOVE, and continually try to block and drain the "Honest" group of any kind of life- giving loving emotions, they make everyone around them feel sad and depressed, We call this group of destructive souls "suicide bombers", as they have ruined their own lives and desire to ruin other peoples too. The concept of people have messed up their own destructive and hateful life, who then choose to destroy other peoples lives is explained fully on original Yalkut Shimoni regarding Samson when he took his own life in order to take the lives of the philistines - book of Judges chapter 13 - 17. 2 Types of Emotions in the World The 2 intrinsic emotions in this world are positive and negative, creative and destructive, love and hate, goodness and badness.
The "Honest" group live with the desire to be POSITIVE and creatively loving, it is intrinsic in their character that they cannot be horrible to other people, they desire to help others, from a profound and deep LOVE for life, a love for GOD and a love of every one of the creations in this Universe. The "Deceitful" group survive during their physical life by STEALING life energy from the "Honest" group. They steal life energy by destroying other peoples lives, or blocking other peoples progress by controlling their lives. Whenever a good "Honest" person suggests any idea, a destructive person will always block this idea, either with a destructive criticism or demeaning negative disbelieving laughter that steals the "confidence" energy from the good person. A strong tendency of the use of jealousy, guilt or other negative emotions is to control other peoples actions. This can lead only to negative reactions that will automatically weaken the relationship until it is destroyed. All negative emotions block life energy of this "Honest" persons soul, whilst the "Deceitful" person feels empowered with energy they have stolen. סוּר מרע ועשה טוֹב Keep away from the "Deceitful" Once a person has learnt to recognise these 2 categories of people, then it becomes simple to have closure from the destructive "deceitful" type of people who are full of hatred, heavy "death" energy and always trying to block ones life. Once a good person realises that so much potential in ones life has been blocked by draining and "Deceitful" types of people, it then becomes an EMERGENCY to have 100% closure from such destructively wicked people. Transforming Ones Life from Hate to LOVE The first step is to recognise the need for change, and understand that good people have bad things happening to them in order to teach them to completely eradicate all negativity from their life and cleanse their soul by forgiving and having closure those people who have caused destruction, in order to become 100% loving and compassionate. "You planned and thought to do evil against me, God planned and thought to bring only goodness to me" The Story of Joseph in the Bible, teaches us that even though the 10 brothers did a wicked act and sold Joseph into slavery for money, Joseph forgave them, as he could see that there was a MASTER DIVINE PLAN. ויאמר אליהם יוסף אל תיראו כי התחת אלהים אני ואתם חשבתם עליי רעה.. אלהים חשבה לטובה The Torah - Bible in Genesis chapter 50 verse 20 בראשית פרק נ פסוק כ "You planned and thought to do evil against me, God planned and thought to bring only goodness to me" Through love and forgiveness we too can transform all our enemies thoughts and energies of hate and destruction into powerful energies of love and creativity. Joseph used the energies of his hateful brothers who tried and wanted to kill him and whom sold him into slavery. Joseph learnt to convert their deep emotional "hate" energy into a powerful creative "love" energy that transformed his life, by forgiving them and accepting that there is a DIVINE plan. The emotions of Hate, Jealousy, Anger, Bitterness, are expressions of emotions that block LOVE. Each of these negative emotions are used by the "Deceitful" group of people because they do not know how to LOVE, they lack the knowledge and nature within their soul to be kind, compassionate, selfless and loving. Such people have no comprehension of a soul or spiritual world, and they certainly have no sense of decency or importance of being kind or good to other people therefore they have chosen to self- destruct their own souls, and to destroy other peoples lives and souls too. We explain in chapter Life of Compassion our need to look deeper at these people, and feel compassion for their souls. This is indeed the essence of forgiveness, in the same way we all forgive children for making mistakes, many adults are simply "children" making silly mistakes through their destructive hatred, and therefore we should forgive them and have pity on the souls. Forgiveness .... Unblocks ALL Physical and Spiritual Blockages and Creates Life Energy of LOVE This is the Jewish prayer we say every night before going to sleep, and it is indeed a prayer said on a persons death bed, in the final preparation as the soul leaves this physical world :-
Translated :- " Master of the Universe - I forgive everyone who has angered and upset me, or sinned against me, whether they did this physically, materialistically or disrespectfully. Whether they did this by accident or intentionally, with horrible evil thoughts or without thinking, whether they said the words or with actions, whether in this life or in previous lives ...... i forgive them... and please GOD do not punish or hurt them, do not bring any illness or anything bad against them as i forgive them completely ....... please GOD " "Forgiveness" has the Power to Convert ALL Destructive Hatred Energy Into Creative LOVE Energy Learn to Forgive & Forget Completely ! The sign that you have successfully forgiven another person, is that when you think of them, you no longer have any hatred feelings. In fact you should have NO FEELINGS towards them at all. They mean NOTHING at all, not to you, your life or your soul. If you still feel some element of hatred or any emotions towards them, this is a sign that you have NOT disconnected from them and their evil ways, and THIS WILL HURT, POISON AND DESTROY YOUR LIFE AND SOUL. So say the prayer and FORGIVE them in your mind, thoughts and soul, forget about them, don't even mention their name, and detach yourself from them and their ways completely. In forgiving these "Deceitful" people and troubled souls we are actually freeing our own soul from any connection from such heavy depressed and sad people. The higher level of forgiveness is that you actually feel sorry for their soul with a compassion and pray for them that they will also find GOD and a loving spiritual pathway in this physical life. Why then do "Deceitful" people exist ? Lessons need to be taught to good people, and very often one can only learn from bad people, from their evil and deceitful ways they teach us valuable lessons. Nothing from the DIVINE spirit world is bad, therefore destructive and evil people are used to give good people "bad experiences" in order to teach them lessons. GOD allows BAD people to give "Bad Experiences" מגלגלים זכות על ידי זכאי וחובה על ידי חייב "Good things come about through good people and bad things will happen through bad people" Meaning that if something destructive has to happen in a persons life, then the Divine Spirit world orchestrate that this destruction is perpetrated through bad people. Conversely when something constructive and good is to happen in a persons life, then the Divine Spirit world orchestrate that this should be created and come about through the creative loving actions of a good person. When Bilaam was going to curse the Jewish people, he realised he was being used by spirit world as an intrument of evil to curse , so he changed his curse to a blessing מה טבו אהליך יעקב משכנותך ישראל , which is prayer now used everyday in jewish synagogues, to teach us that we can ALL CHANGE and become instruments of goodness and not instruments of evil and badness. Someone has to give people "Bad Experiences" - dont let it be YOU ! Deceitful People who give us "Bad Experiences" actually LOVE us ! ואהבת לרעך כמוך "Love Your Neighbour Like Yourself" "Love Your Evil Enemy !" Literally translated from the hebrew means "love your enemy, that is LOVE those who hate you and want to do evil to you" as the word רע = evil . Those who hate us, deep down really have a tremendous amount of love for us, because they are of the "Deceitful" group of people, they do OPPOSITES, so instead of showing love they show hate. The secret in this life is see beyond the physical situation, understanding the "bigger picture" of life which then cancels the cycle of hate, death and destruction and one can only live with a life of forgiveness to others and life of LOVE and Compassion. Anger begets anger. When the bible says, 'Love your enemy', that's precisely what he meant. If we want to stop a cycle of violence and evil, we have to step outside it, no matter how shocked we may feel or how much harm it has done to us. We have to be guided by hope and inspiration, not fear or fury. Understanding these emotions of the heart, and continiually converting them into LOVE energy is the task and challenge of almost every spiritually minded person in this life. The DIVINE plan By understanding and accepting that there is a DIVINE plan for each and everyone of us, then there is no reason or point to getting upset, annoyed or angry, these are bad emotions that belong to bad people. Good people only have LOVE, compassion and forgiveness. Life teaches us to learn to FORGET, FORGIVE and MOVE ON to a better future of wholesome LOVE. As a person "grows-up" spiritually then one learns that there is no need to feel any negative emotions in life. Time is often the best healer, as in hindsight we all see the "bigger picture" of life, whether we see this a few days later , a few years later or during this life or in Spirit world, the same principle applies :- מַה שֶלא יַעַשֵה הַשֵכֶל .... יַעַשֶה הַזְמָן For everything that the intellect cannot accomplish .... then time will succeed to accomplish. The Philosophy of Life quoted from Sefer Shinuyim "Opposites Attract" to Teach Difficult Lessons "Opposites attract" for the single purpose to TEACH a person difficult lesson. Most people ONLY learn by being giving difficult situations with difficult people. These are "opposites", they are NOT permanenet in a persons life , and only temporary situations whilst a person needs to learn. As explained in #5 Soulmates below, ones true SOULMATE does not need to conflict of argue, as they are on the "same side". Anyone who brings conflict into ones life, is doing so to teach one a difficult lesson. Once the lesson is learnt the person will leave ones life forever !
4. Understanding The Concept of "True Love" אהבה אמתי Connects Ones Soul to Spirit World. "True Love" energy is spiritual love energy, hence it is unconditional upon anything physical. "True Love" is attained through the connection on a level of the soul to the SPIRIT world. "True Spiritual Love" is the only way one can energize ones soul with pure life energy, through connecting ones soul to the Eternal DIVINE wellspring and source of all pure creative physical and spiritual energy of the whole Universe - LOVE. "True Love" is the creative life-giving energy that connects ones soul to Spirit world, this LOVE connection energizes our soul with the יניקה מלמעלה from the DIVINE source of all pure creative physical and spiritual energy. What is "True Love" אהבה אמתי ? "True Love" is a life-giving source of energy of UNCONDITIONAL love; it is not given nor taken but it is a GIFT of energy that energizes a persons soul with "LIFE" energy. The spiritual law of LOVE is that LOVE has a power to CREATE energy. When a person energizes ones heart with emotions of LOVE one is given motivational energy to accomplish actions, tasks and "make life happen". "Giving & Taking" OR "Creating" People who only believe in the physical world, have beliefs of limitations, and do not believe in the infinite power of creative energy of LOVE. Therefore they live a "limited-life" based on "Giving & Taking", wherefore they live selfishly, by amassing energy for themselves by taking as much as possible from others and not giving. This leaves everyone they connect with - feeling drained, blocked and unloved. The Spiritual Law of LOVE, and the basis of all the creations in the entire Universe is that LOVE is CREATED energy. Every LOVE emotion of every second of every day creates an energy and vitality that energizes a person mind, body & soul with an "aliveness". Therefore a spiritually enlightened person knows the ONLY way to generate a life energy is by CREATING LOVE energy. Creating Love Energy (1) The first way to create LOVE energy is to connect to the Divine source of LOVE which is through LOVE of GOD. (2) Secondly, one can create LOVE energy by thinking of and connecting with good loving spiritual souls in the Spirit world. People you knew when they were alive, and through the bond of pure unconditional LOVE that exists eternally, connects our soul with their souls in the Spiritual world. (3) Thirdly, learning to appreciate and give thanks for all the wonderful things we have in life, makes a persons heart fill with LOVE energy out of gratitude for the gift and opportunities of life. (1) LOVE of GOD אהבת השם יתברך יראת השם יתברך ...לראות את האמת ...מביא ליראת השם יתברך Learning to see the truth in life brings a person to be in awe of GOD. When we contemplate the wonders of this Universe and the millions of people on this planets earth, and the wonders of creations on the planet that sustain us with physical life. We start to see the wonderful magnitude of the DIVINE creator of the Universe. As we grow-up and become adults learning to create life with the power of emotions of both physical and spiritual LOVE we learn that we are indeed a part of GOD. A small spark of Godliness that is contained in everyones soul, that sustains our physical and spiritual life. (2) Connecting to Spirit World With Love During everyones life we are all given 3 opportunities of "life-experiences" to connect with the DIVINE Spirit World with LOVE :- "Sudden Shocks" , accidents & life-threatening incidents act as catalysts for change that "wakes-up" a persons mind & soul to appreciate the gift of life with a sincere gratitude and LOVE of GOD for the gift of life. "Sudden Shocks" such as accidents or life-threatening incidents happen in order to "wake-up" a persons mind and soul to appreciate the gift of life. These "Sudden Shocks" frighten a person into the perception that they could die at any moment however young and tragic, making a person realise that one is mortal and that every moment of life is valuable. Very often people live like "unemotional robots", prefering a materialistic career-driven life more than a spiritually-inspired loving and purposeful life. Such "Sudden Shocks" are sent to everyones life as a "gift" to provide a person with an opportunity to "wake-up" and CHANGE their total perspective of life. Usually such "sudden shocks" are very dramatic with a spiritual "boost" of amazing couragous energy to help a person transform suddenly. Such "Sudden Shocks", and sudden transformations instill in ones soul an enormous LOVE of GOD and appreciation for the DIVINE intervention in ones life, to the extent that one feels ones life has been saved by unique Divine intervention - השגחה פרטית - and one really has been ! Such a person who reacts to such "sudden shocks" of Divine intervention השגחה פרטית generates an enormous gratitude and sincere LOVE of GOD, LOVE of LIFE, and LOVE of Spirit world. From this moment onwards the life-changing situation will have instilled an irreversable change of attitude, that will keep one energized with a pure LOVE of GOD and LOVE of LIFE for eternity. This LOVE is "TRUE LOVE" אהבה אמתי , as it is NOT conditional on anything physical, it is pure as the Eternal DIVINE GOD, as this True LOVE of LIFE energy has now connected ones soul with the DIVINE Spiritual source of all energy in the universe. When Someone You Love or Someone Who Loves you - Dies and Passes-Over to Spirit World Awakening ones spiritual soul, mind and thoughts occurs everytime someone you love dies. This happens in everyones life. Everyone has someone very special in their life whom they love who dies. The bond of unconditional love one has, is indeed a spiritual connection between the two of your souls. This bond of love between your souls will keep you connected for eternity. The tremendous love energy is classified by many as love of soulmates, as this is no longer dependant on anything physical, it is purely spiritual love within ones mind and soul. Developing this energy of soulmate love for the person you loved whom is now in Spirit world now enables a person to connect stronger to GOD. Instinctively everyone developes a changed attitude at the meaning of life and the meaning of "true love", when a person is naturally thinking with unconditional love about someone special in their life whom has died and is now in Spirit world. The LOVE of GOD and LOVE of LIFE developed with this spiritual connection potentially can happen in everyones life at any time and is part of the continual process of life & death that connects all the generations and spirit souls, enabling everyone to become more spiritually minded. (3) "Sudden Instinctive Moments" "Sudden Instinctive Moments" - are spiritual gifts of energy that open our soul to the spiritual world and the inherent deep love of GOD within our souls. These are known as "moments of clarity". Inexplicable moments in ones life, where suddenly a person feels clear headed and clear thinking. This is a gift from the Divine GOD and spirit world. At that moment in your life when you feel the LOVE of GOD work on your heart, softening you to become full of true LOVE and compassion, then nothing else matters, and all your physical problems dissapate. Feeling this energy of true LOVE is truly a gift from GOD . Life will never be the same and the Divine spiritual transformation has just begun. Suddenly ones aims and ambitions change. Life has new meaning and a sense of purpose and most importantlt a true love of life fills ones heart. Where there is TRUE LOVE, there is GOD. Where there is GOD - there is life, hope, faith and true happiness . Which inately creates a life cycle of abundantly good energy as one will always show appreciation and give thanks for all the wonderful things we have in life, making a persons heart fill with even more abundant LOVE energy out of gratitude for the gift and opportunities of life.
5. Understanding How To Find Ones True SOULMATE In this section we shall explain the meaning of "soulmates" and how to find and identify ones true soulmate, taken from Sefer Shinuyim - the "Book of Changes". We shall explain the spiritual law of "Two types of "SOULMATES" one type that gives one difficult and challenging experiences in order to teach one important lessons in life and the other perfect harmonious soulmate that is excatly identical to you as he/she is your "other half", the exact piece one has been searching for since one was born to complete ones soul. After reading this section we know and hope you will be placed on the right pathway to find ones true soulmate and stop wasting your vital souls energy on the "wrong ones" ! This section on "Soulmates" is explained in 7 stages:- 1.Explaining the purpose and meaning of "soulmates" and "soul groups". 2.Explaining that one actually has 2 Soulmates עזר כנגדו, one is a help עזר, the other is a challenging opposition כנגדו. 3.Explaining how to find ones true "soulmate". 4.Explaining the reason for the amazing inexplicable magnetic attraction of soulmates, and why one feels, senses and knows ones soulmates thoughts and feelings. Explaining that only the two people "know" they are each others soulmate, whilst in other peoples "sensible eyes" they appear to be unsuitable and even unequal. 5.Explaining why there are difficulties whilst "soulmates" are trying to come together, through blockages of קליפות "shells of negative energy covering ones soul", created from other peoples negative thoughts that envelope a person to be blocked. How soulmates themselves generate their own קליפות "shells of negative energy covering ones soul", negative energies which challenge, test and doubt themselves until they are 100% absolutely certain to know that this person is ones soulmate. Then explaining how to negate any קליפות, negative, challenging and opposing energies in making 2 soulmates coming and being together. 6. Explaining that every soulmate couple is a עולם קטן "small world". The principle of soulmates needing to protect themselves and live in their "own world" refusing to "allow-in" any destructive or negative energies into their relationship and having their own unique purpose and mission in their lives. 7. Explaining the spiritual loving energy that is created by soulmates everytime they "make love", which creates a spiritual protecting energy to strengthen their bond, energize their lives and grow spiritually. 1. Explaining The Purpose And Meaning Of "Soulmates" And "Soul Groups". The true purpose of the gift of life on earth is inorder for our souls to learn and experience life, through all kinds of events, opportunities and challenges throughout our lives. Thankfully we are not alone during our journey of life, unless ofcourse a person believes themselves to be selfish egocentrical "individuals", then even amongst large groups of people they are lonely and disconnected. "The Soulgroup" During our journey of life, we travel on this earth in "soul groups", that is a group, culture and identity where all the members of the soul group understand each other and live on the same physical and spiritual wavelength. The members of ones soul group may not all be alive on earth, they may be spiritual souls who have passed onto to Spirit world but mantain contact with you as they are part of ones soul group in much the same way as "Guardian angels" . One will always be able to rely upon ones soul group to help, guide, assist, the souls in ones soul group will make 100% certain that one succeeds to fulfill ALL of ones lifes goals, objectives, challenges and purpose ones soul came to earth to learn. Once a person has learnt the lessons of ones life, it is possible to elevate ones soul into a higher soulgroup, and likewise if one makes a bad decision one can move out of ones soulgroup into a lower group. Nontheless one always has the intrinsic continual opportunity and chance to return to ones destined soulgroup and likewise on is always guarenteed to be able to find their perfect soulmate, through the help of ones "Guardian angels" and helpful souls from ones soulgroup. "The Soulmate" Talmud (Sotah 2a) teaches that "destiny" has designated each and every individual with a soulmate. The "soulmate" is actually the other half of a person. With ones soulmate one is wholesome, without it one is void and empty. With ones "soulmate" comes a "package" of a home to live and profession/job and purpose in life. The spiritual and physical energy of planet earth resonates to the number TWO, everything on our planet comes in pairs. The Earth itself is paired with the Moon, the identity of the Earth needs the Moon to exist both physically and spiritually, in the renewal of energies monthly and daily tidal flows, as the magnetic pull of the Moons energy causes high and low tides - the Earth needs CHANGE to exist. The emphasis and importance of finding ones true soulmate is the key to success in life. The two halves that make the whole, once together one can lead a fulfilling and purposeful life of "destiny". Having the "wrong half" means one does not have ones soulmate hence one does not have "the key of life" to fulfill ones true destined purpose in life. Without the right "key", ones life will seem frustrating and unlucky - like stuck in a locked room full of closed doors . It maybe nice few hours, but would be frustratingly painful to remain there for the rest of ones life ! The purpose of the "soulmate" is to make a person feel wholesome with LOVE and enable one to accomplish the mission and purpose of life through physical, sexual and spiritual LOVE energy. Everything constructive and good in this life is only created through LOVE. Only through the loving energy created together with ones soulmate creates the perfect energy to live, bringing meaning to everything in ones life. 2. Explaining that everyone has 2 Soulmates, עזר כנגדו , one is a help עזר, the other is a challenging opposition כנגדו. Everyone has freewill choice in life, even when we think we are making a choice, it is either categorised into a good decision or a bad decision. Both decisions are choices that are potentially destined for our soul, the bad decisions we make will challenge us and make life difficult for us in order to guide us to change, making the corrective decision and finding the correct good pathway, our soul instinctively only finds "inner peace of mind", when we are on the correct pathway. Most people only learn from bad and challenging relationships. Such connections will have a similar instantaneous magnetic attraction as good relationships, as they too, are destined in order to teach a person important lessons, but they will continue to repeat past patterns if bad relationships as there is a lesson a person needs to learn, and until one learns the lesson one will keep on being magnetic to the bad and "challenging" type of relationships. The 2 Types of Soulmates "עזר - The Help" "עזר - The Help" soulmates are always 100% on your side with continual support, help, love, passion and an eternal unconditional LOVE, and whom would NEVER EVER hurt you. Whenever one plans, talks and thinks ideas with ones true helpful soulmate, they constructively help to energize ones life with loving energy, enabling one to overcome any negativity, moving all obstacles and finding the correct pathway to success. As ones true helpful soulmate always knows that they are ones "Other Half", when something good happens to the other half of them, they too benefit from this good energy. "כנגדו - The Opposition" "כנגדו - The Opposition" soulmates teach a person by constantly challenging, through emotionally bitter lessons with pain and difficulties. The "opposition" bad relationships always cause a sensible person to "go closed" on themself emotionally in order to protect their soul. Prefering to live alone in ones mind and thoughts than communicate with such a destructive person in a dysfunctional relationship. A feeling of "living with the enemy" ensues, and everything one plans or tells such a person gets blocked and thwarted by their destructive and negative thought energies, critical words and horrible actions. Until it comes a point in ones life, where one says "ENOUGH" ! At such a "breaking point" a person may loose faith in love, loose faith in relationships, loose faith life and worst of all - loose faith in GOD. But when a person realises that such a relationship is a dysfuntional "כנגדו - Opposition" soulmate, then this makes a person find an inner strength, admitting to oneself the truth of the bad relationship and then learning how to find ones true 100% loving soulmate the soulmate of "עזר - Help". "עזר - The Help" can sometimes be a "כנגדו - The Opposition" There are times that we all make mistakes in our lives, and even though we are living with and have found our 100% loving soulmate, he/she may challenge us and be absolutely right to challenge with the strength of "opposition". They act in this way of challenging "opposition" as they are wishing to defend their own soul, through love of their "Other Half" of their soul, they are trying to protect the relationship by any destructive external opposing energies and any negative influence or bad decision the other person has made. They are "challenging and opposing" out of a deep sincere love, in order to protect the wholesomeness of their perfect soulmate union. "כנגדו - The Opposition" can sometimes turn into "עזר - The Help" "כנגדו - The Opposition" soulmates always have the potential to become perfectly 100% loving soulmates, with no more need for bitter experiences, pain or difficulties ONLY when they have have refined and elevated their soul after learning the necessary lessons their souls need to learn. Soulmates may choose to start their relationship through a "challenging" and opposing energy, however, by working together and challenging each others individualism they are able to transform themselves into a single UNITED soulmate, through negating any opposing energies that exist by learning to completely love each other, and thereby transform their relationship into a 100% loving helpful soulmate union.
3. Explaining How To Find Ones True "Soulmate" When meeting new people in life, connections and bonds are made either because the people share a "common interest" or because one person has something the other person wants. "Physical Chemistry" In the case of love and relationships, men and women are magnetically aroused and attracted to each other. Nontheless not all men are attracted to all women and vice versa, there needs to be a certain "chemistry" that makes a man and a woman "fall in love" with each other. This "chemistry" is the energy of the thoughts in the mind, that is a man and a woman only really feel a connection to each other when they are in harmony with each other in their mind & thoughts. This "common factor" enables a wholesomeness and fullness in the relationship, otherwise the love is merely a superficial animal - instinct sexual love, which usually fades within a few weeks. Human beings who are connected with each other, need to have an ability to think the same way as each other, they need to have a "common factor" in order to feel the relationship is wholesome. Hence the reason why single people join clubs and organisations, or have hobbies and interests as a sense of identity of their personality. Thereby enabling themselves to meet "like-minded" people and hopefully find a suitable man/woman with whom they can have a meaningful relationship with, as their inner minds and thoughts will be sharing similar identities, emotions and feelings. If either become disinterested in the "common factor" that originally united them, then their relationship will have communication problems leading to an automatic "falling out of love", as their thoughts and energy of their minds no longer have anything "in common". When a couple are not growing together, then they are growing apart in their diverging lifestyles and interests. Such a relationship will eventually fail completely, unless one of them changes to become like the other. "Spiritual Chemistry" The next level of relationships is that people feel a "magnetic" attraction, a "twinkle in the eye" or very lovely inner feeling, even without talking. Relationships that are prompted by "just a thought" of them, seeing them or seeing anything that reminds you of them, that is your mind and soul is connecting yourself with their mind and thoughts. Such thought energies are ones mind and soul communicating with you and likewise with the other persons mind and soul is feeling the same inner feeling for you, your souls are communicating with each other, this gives you the "inner spiritual feeling" that you are made for each other, an inexplicable inner "spiritual chemistry". Such a "spiritual chemistry" is definately a sign that this is someone important in your life and definately from ones "soulgroup" as explained above. The important question "how do you identify if they are your true soulmate?" This needs you to understand the "soulmate chemistry":- "Soulmate Chemistry" Soulmates, and all members of ones soulgroup have a unique telepathic communication of thought energies in the minds and souls of the whole soulgroup. All the souls of ones soulgroup know and sense exactly what the other members are feeling. They all have the same thoughts, feelings and emotions at the same time. They feel pain, when people in their soulgroup are in pain, and likewise they feel the happiness, love and strength from the other souls in their soulgroup. The "soulmate chemistry" means that all the souls of the soulgroup are constantly connected even if they are physically far away from each other, they are very close spiritually, as their soul, mind and thoughts are constantly connected. This "soulmate chemistry" is the reason why ones "guardian angels" and loved ones in spirit world, are in constant contact with ones soul, as they are members of ones spiritual soul group. The only reason a person feels alone and not in contact with people of their same soulgroup is because one may block or deny the existence of "spirit" world, believing that one needs to "get on with normal physical life" instead of including a "spiritual enlightened pathway" within ones physical existence in this life on earth. Only when a person is connected spiritually and "open" to be guided spiritually, then through "soulmate chemistry" of you and your soulgroup, through ones "guardian angels" and loved ones in spirit world whom are waiting to help you find a spiritual pathway, one is assured to be guided to connect with and find ones true soulmate. How To Find Your True Soulmate The first step in finding your true soulmate is to believe in GOD, Spirit world, Guardian Angels and that through your connection to good souls in Spirit world from your soulgroup, you will be guided to find your soulmate or that your soulmate will find you. "Asking for Guidance For Ones Soul" Tikun Neshoma - תיקון נשמה Sefer Tikunim in Tikun Neshoma - תיקון נשמה explains when a person has lived a life void of any belief in GOD, belief in spiritual afterlife or in a "Spirit World of Souls", then a person should light 3 candles to connect "spiritually":- One candle for GOD, one candle for ones guardian angel and one candle for ones soul, and then pray that one should be guided spiritually to correct any mistakes one has made whilst living a life VOID of any belief in GOD, and ask to be guided along the right pathway destined for ones soul.
Whilst praying one will feel spiritually enlightened, with feelings of awareness and belief in GOD and belief in the existence of a spiritual soul. Such feelings and understandings will bring a person to see a "bigger picture", that life on earth is part of a spiritual journey for ones soul, with a unique and destined pathway for each and every soul to experience emotions, events and changes. Connecting to Spirit World With Prayer Will Help to Strengthen Your Soul and Enable Your Soulmate to be Found and Bring You Together Every prayer helps to connect ones soul to Spirit world and brings a person closer to the DIVINE GOD that creates and sustains this Universe. All connections to "Spirit World" will increase and strengthen your spiritual strength, this includes praying at the gravesites of spiritually strong and good souls, especially praying at the gravesites of good people one knew and loved, and/or praying at Famous Rabbis & Rebbes holy gravsites, sending prayer requests into the Famous Rabbi Yonatan Ben Uziel and ofcourse continually giving thanks for the gift of life whilst asking for help and guidance to find ones true soulmate. One can use the Prayers for Soulmate from Sefer Tikunim, but even stronger one should use ones own language to pray from ones heart for ones soulmate with a few heartfelt emotions and tears. It does not matter what time of the day or night, whenever one intuitively and spiritually feels the right moment to pray and ask for spiritual help, then light a candle and pray in whatever language you understand. The stronger ones inner spiritual connection the sooner ones true soulmate will be found by spirit world and you will come together. Lighting Candles For Your Soulmate
Light 2 Candles : One For You and One For Your Soulmate In preparing for your soulmate to come into your life, you will develope a selfless and spiritual character, by lighting a candle for the soul of your soulmate even though you have not met him/her yet, you are showing a love, compassion and desire to pray and help someone else, who is actually YOUR other half. Learning to show love, desiring to give selflessly and unconditionally to another person is all part of "growing-up" from being a demanding selfish child to loving unconditionally, and thereby become a perfect potential parent. Ask yourself, "would you give EVERYTHING of what you have to your soulmate?" if the answer is "YES", then you have understood that giving to your soulmate is infact just giving to yourself, a cycle of life energy. The concept of sharing and giving love in a soulmate loving relationship is the spiritual basis of life, as in the cycle of life in the whole Universe, the DIVINE GOD constantly gives everything to everyone. When praying for ones soulmate, never focus your thoughts on any particular person, as they may not be yours, and an even better person will be your destined perfect soulmate, and then be "open" to listen to your inner voice of guidance and ACT, there is no point in praying and then DOING NOTHING when one has a feeling to go somewhere or speak to someone ! "Within 12 Months" The Spiritual guarentee from Sefer Shinuyim - Book of Changes and from Famous Rabbi Yonatan Ben Uziel, is that within 12 months of prayers of asking GOD and Spirit world to find ones true soulmate then one will find him/her, DIVINE coincedences, experiences and feelings will occur to guide you to your soulmate and guide your soulmate to you. In section 5 below we explain why there are difficulties whilst "soulmates" are trying to come together, through blockages of קליפות of other peoples negative thoughts that envelope a person to be blocked, and explain how to negate & eliminate these blockages. "Compare to Modern Day Internet" If one is searching for someone on the internet than one first needs to get a computer and be online, then a person needs to search by using a search engine like google or yahoo. Similarly spiritually, in searching for ones true soulmate, one first needs to believe in GOD and Spirit world, connecting by way of prayers and lighting candles for GOD and Spirit world for DIVINE help to find ones soulmate, and then "be open", listen and allow one to be guided to meet ones soulmate. Everyone has a perfect soulmate and when you find him/her your soul will instinctively know, your life will "magically" open up with an amazing life vitality of love and life-giving energy. With your true soulmate you will feel an eternal LOVE energy, as soulmates existed in spirit world before we were born when our souls arrived on earth and will existe unified together once we die and leave this earth. The intermediary years of life on earth is the challenge that we must ensure we waste no time in finding our true soulmate to live a wholesome purposeful loving life together. The True Soulmate "One who looks for money, beauty, status or anything physical in a relationship will NEVER find their true soulmate" quoted from Tana Devei Eliyahu In seeking your true Soulmate ask yourself the following questions:- When contemplating ones emotions with respect to ones true soulmate, one needs to ask "Do you want to be so different from that person?" OR "Do you wish to actually be identical to that person, and be a part of that person, in every single way ?" In the desire to be that person, and become a complete part of that persons life because indeed a true soulmate is the "other half", one is motivated and prepared to change ones mind, thoughts and even physical existence to be with him/her, energized by a magnetic love from the soul. This power from ones soul is an identity that indicates ones "true soulmate", the desire to reunite your souls together as ONE in this world as you have been before you came into this world and will be united eternally in spirit world after leaving this physical life for eternity, and refusing to allow anything physical or material distract or block your souls from being together. One will not find true inner "peace of mind" withing ones mind and soul until one is with ones true soulmate.
4. Explaining The Reason For The Amazing Inexplicable Magnetic Attraction Of Soulmates. In this section we explain the spiritual reason for the amazing inexplicable magnetic attraction of soulmates, and why one feels, senses and knows everything ones soulmate is thinking and feeling. Instantaneous Magnetic Attraction Soulmates have an instantanous magnetic attraction to each other, as their relationship is blessed by DIVINE GOD, blessed by Spirit world and "destined" as a "key of life" for their lives together on earth. Even people who try and fight this magnetic soulmate love desire for each other, will find their efforts to block themselves futile and will eventually be together. As soulmates will never find "peace of mind" and true purposeful fulfillment of their souls until they are together, both physically and spiritually together. True soulmates always need and lovingly enjoy being together all the time. The reason for this inexplicable magnetic attraction between soulmates is that their Guardian Angels are guiding them and bringing energy to both people simultaneously, in order to "force", guide and bring this soulmate couple together. Ofcourse selfish ego, stubborness and freewill choice can block this, but eventually "soulmates" always come together. Each persons Guardian Angels will ensure this happens, however illogical ! Wrong Relationships Always Fail Similarly, the reason why "wrong" relationships, lovers and marriages fail is that each of the individuals Guardian Angels are conflicting with the other persons Guardian Angels, both individuals are incompatable on a spiritual level and hence eventually they end up conflicting on a physical level. A "sign" for this is that there are conflicts, disharmony and inbalances in the relationship and very often a person enjoys having "SPACE" away from the other, and in the "space" a person feels enlivened and happy for this freedom ! This requirement for "space" is an energy from ones Guardian Angels to pull one away from a bad and wrong relationship. Once the wrong person is out of ones life, "good fortune" always happens in a persons life, as a spiritual sign from ones Guardian Angels that one is now on the correct pathway and free from that "negative" person . Everyone believes in "SIGNS" as these give everyone an indication of good energy, a good omen to ones soul which is living in this real physical world that one is with the right person doing the right thing at the right time. If one feels "uncomfortable" or misfortune happens where it has not happend before, then take this as a sign and have "closure" and please run away from them !!! Once one has "closure" from "draining" people, a positive energy of excitement and "aliveness" is given by ones Guardian Angels, this is because ones soul is "blocking success" when one is with bad people. The more spiritual and sensitive a person is, the stronger the "blocking energy" caused by other peoples transference energy, through ones Guardian Angels as sign to protect you. Soulmates Communicate by "Eye Contact" אסור לאדם לקדש את האשה עד שיראנה The Talmud Kidushin 41a explains that a person is forbidden to marry unless they see each other with their eyes. The Talmud does not say "talk to each other" or kiss etc., but the talmud says a person needs to "to see" with ones eyes. This is because ones eyes are the windows to ones soul, and "eye contact" means that your souls are communicating with each other. Only by "eye contact" will you know that this person is your soulmate and only through your continual "eye contact" your souls are communicating with each other.
5. Why There Are Difficulties Whilst "Soulmates" Are Coming Together? Created By Blockages Of קליפות Other Peoples Negative Thoughts That Envelope A Person And Block. Sometimes there are difficulties whilst "soulmates" are trying to come together, through blockages of קליפות of other peoples negative thoughts that envelope a person to be blocked, the reason is that the union of "soulmates" is VERY POWERFUL and many people are jealous, hateful and spiteful with envy that one has developed spiritually with a wonderful soulmate union of love, even destructive and controlling "well meaning" parents can be jealous and create negative blockages! Negative Blockages - קליפות קליפות -"kleepes" literally translated are "layers of hard shells". Spiritually the word קליפות - "kleepes" is used in reference to shells of negative energy that attach themselves to ones soul and prevent "life energy" from DIVINE GOD and from Spirit world coming into ones soul, these קליפות - "kleepes" are created by negative emotions and thoughts such has hate, jealousy, deceit and lies. These negative blockages are created by a person or by other people who wish to block ones life. "Blockages" are created by negative thought energy hence they are easily cancelled-out through the power of prayer and speech, as explained in the chapter Loss by "Transference". Resisting "Change" Creates Blockages When a person finally meets their soulmate, they will both be in a transition period of inner change, until they come together as one in physical sexual love. This is because both have been living a "half life" without their soulmate and adapted to a dysfunctional life whilst living alone. Therefore, some changes will be necessary. If either one resist these changes in their lives, through their independant, selfish childish ways of thinking, or their stubborn ego then this creates קליפות - "kleepes" negative blockages. Only when they realise that each other is the "other half" of the other and then decided to grow-up into mature selfless adults. At that moment of inner decision they will both resist the need to create blockages of moving forward by "holding onto" their past, and then they will come together for a united wonderful future for their soul which is ONE, and then there is no longer such thing as 2 people in a soulmate, they are simply ONE unit. Other People Who Wish to "Control" And "Own" Your Soul Creates Blockages The other blockage of קליפות is created from other peoples negative thoughts that envelope a person to be blocked, the reason is that the union of "soulmates" is VERY POWERFUL and many people are jealous, hateful and spiteful with envy that one has developed spiritually and has a wonderful soulmate union of love, even destructive and controlling parents can be jealous and create negative blockages! Single people who feel that they are "into their career" or "committed" to their job, profession or business and have no time for loving relationships, may think they are making a good decision themselves, however in reality they do not OWN their own souls. They have "sold their souls to the devil", to their career or to the love of "making money", as they are not in control of their own lives and have given their soulful power away, this will create the same blockage in their lives, and thwart their own spiritual success in finding their true soulmate. These negative blockages are dissolved by cancelling out through prayer, power of speech and inner change, as explained in Loss by "Transference", then the couple must learn to be 100% closed and be spiritually protected to such negativity which is trying to challenge and block their soulmate union. Dissolve All Negative Blockages - קליפות
6. Every Soulmate Couple Is A עולם קטן "Small World". Every soulmate couple is a עולם קטן "small world". The principle of soulmates needing to protect themselves and live in their "own world" refusing to "allow-in" any destructive or negative energies into their relationship and having their own unique purpose and mission in their lives is vital to the existence and survival of their soulmate world. Therefore, whenever a soulmate couple feels any form of negativity in their loving relationship - light a single candle, and embrace each other with love, as they are ONE, this unity symbolized in ONE candle and connecting with the DIVINE Spirit world will protect them and negate any negativity from whomever and wherever it has come from. When a soulmate couple are together they are protecting each other from any external negative influences, in fact they are living in their own עולם קטן "small world" and almost oblivious to any negativity that exists or any negativity that they would have sensed when they were single. Being together and living in their own world, especially when unified as one unit in making sexual love, creates spiritual and physical love energy which protects from all negativity. 7. Everytime "Soulmates" Make Sexual Love They Create Spiritual Energy That Protects Their Souls There is a spiritual loving energy created by soulmates everytime they "make love", which creates a spiritual protecting energy to strengthen their bond, energize their lives and grow spiritually. The act of making sexual love with ones soulmate unites the two seperate physical bodies in the most natural way, the womans body is lacking and the mans physical body has the missing piece that unites the two bodies. Only through their loving arousal for each other, through passion and love they unite in the act of sexu | |||||||
