Brainwashing & Debrainwashing

"A single thought has the power to change the whole world"

"Sefer Shinuyim ספר שינוּים"

The Sefer Shinuyim - Book of Changes explains that a small key of a single thought and knowledge, one can have the ability to transform and change ones whole life. This is the reason every person came to this earth with a mind and ability to THINK in order to CHANGE. The aim of ones life is to successfully clear and cleanse ones thoughts and soul, unblock the negative emotions engrained on ones soul, and transform into a positive, creative, vibrant and loving soul full of vitality and love .

"Debrainwashing"

Ofcourse its only a joke, nontheless from modern-day comparison to computers, its easy to understand the urgent need to be constantly vigilent and careful of "allowing in" destructive viruses, blockages, and negative influences into our computers and our lives .

The Simple Method to Transform and Change

The lesson from "Sefer Shinuyim - Book of Change" is simple :-

1. ERASE the past, have a complete CLEARANCE, of the past, by analysis of the signposts one has been given and with the gift of hindsight, one can see ones mistakes clearly . Especially a need to clear all the "BLOCKS" one has (or others have) caused and created in ones life, understanding why the blocks have been there and then clearing them away. ( This also includes clearing blocks created in ones soul from "past lives", hence the importance of understanding reincarnation "GILGUL" in clearing these blockages).

2. FOCUS on being "CLOSED", be careful not to "allow in" past negative or destructive emotions, people or bad experiences from the past. Learn to protect oneself and be constantly CLOSED to negative people and situations especially if one is a sensitive person.

3. FOCUS on good positive emotions. A continual spiritual awareness focused on a purposeful creative, kind, loving, spiritually awakened life. With a motivation to protect ones soul and compassionately help to improve collectively the quality of life on earthm, working to cancel out the destructive energies with constructive creative love of God, the pure divine energy.

1000's of thoughts everyday

Every moment of everyday, we are thinking thoughts. Most have very little influence on their own but collectively they identify our general attitude to life. If most of our thoughts are "other peoples" influences over our mind - then we will be confused and be depressed for most of the time. ( as we explain on the page "Its NOT yours" ).

If your thoughts are your personal and individual thoughts, unique to you and your soul, then you will feel in control of your life, at peace and confident with yourself.

Try this Exercise - Erase the "$^!&!"

When you come home after a day at work or outside. Spend 15 mins thinking of all the things you saw and experienced. What was the image - a really nice picture in your mind - that impressed you most ? What was the image that really disturbed and annoyed you ? What was the happiest thing you saw ? what was the saddest thing you saw ?

Now spend 5 mins erasing the sad, negative and depressing images . Can you erase these images? Ummmm.... ?? I know - its not easy - in fact its very difficult to erase something ugly or unpleasant that has happend.

Why is it so difficult to erase the negative, sad and depressing images? The answer is simple - this negative image has joined the "HUGE DUMP" a collection of negative experiences in your mind . The single thought has no real power, but as it joins the DUMP of negative thoughts, it has power to depress and annoy you. Once the "DUMP" of negative images and emotions is FULL in your mind, either a nervous emotional breakdown occurs or :-

"The mid life crisis"

One of the reasons of the emergency "mid life" crisis for many people, is that they have amassed millions of negative thoughts and experiences in their minds, that even the futile attempts of supressing these thoughts by alcohol, smoking, drugs and other addictions, all these methods have failed to keep these negative thoughts from "depression" - so finally an outburst of emotion occurs - whereby a persons mind refuses to "allow in" anymore of the destructive abusive cycle of negative thoughts to continue.

This is the effect of the "brainwashing cycle" we have lived in for so long, because we were too lazy and careless to monitor the images and messages arriving in our mind. The "DUMP" in our mind and soul is FULL and has had enough abuse . So emergency measures are taken by ones soul to "BLOCK" everything and anything coming into ones life.

Debrainwashing Cycle

The typical destructive, wasteful "brainwashing" cycle, allows a continual cycle and collection of negative thoughts to enter our mind and soul . As we explain on the page "Its not yours" and Depression, these individual thoughts collect themselves to give a negative outlook on life, and when a person feels "there is no point to life" - then they stop trying to create a loving life of kindness, instead they turn to be a destructive influence, trying to destroy other peoples lives as their life is destroyed like a "sinking ship", with an evil desire to take other people down with them - this ofcourse is destructively evil .

The ideal Constructive creative thought cycle

We call this a "brainwashing" cycle - in a positive way, that just like dirty clothes are washed and cleansed, similarly our mind needs cleansing of negative and depressing thoughts and "trash" ! A constructive "brainwashing thought cycle", enables a positive thinking person to make a collection of positive thoughts, so that the thoughts have a collective energy and power to create even more loving creative energy.

There is a 3rd type of "thought cycle" as we explain on the page Loss by "transference" , the negative energy created by "transference", of energy from someone else . As we explain on the page of Blocking Success , this blockage has power to cause destruction and blockages in a good persons life, by way of transference from a destructive person.

The simple solution to a depressing and destructive way of life is to break the cycle .

The Solutions:-

We allow ourselves to be abusively brainwashed because of one of 3 reasons:-

1. "We cannot help the fact that we have been born with rotten parents"

Being born into an abusive family, being born into a family with rotten parents, who resent their children based on the selfish fact that these parents NEVER wanted these children. These parents have deep resentment and hatred for their children, as they selfishly wanted sex without any constructive creative thoughts of wanting to conceive children .

These parents are irresponsible and lacking intelligence to be responsible parents. Therefore they commence a cycle of abusive "brainwashing" and destructive criticism of their unwanted and unloved children.

These "mentally abused" children who are often very gifted and extremely sensitive, ( as we explain the gift of Sensitive children / souls ). They will have the spiritual opportunity in many cases to LEAVE home early, as their soul is hurting and crying inside from abuse and lack of LOVE.

The dilemma is that when one leaves abusive hateful and rotten parents, the person may replace the "abusive" and negative parent with another "abusive and negative situation", an untrusworthy friend or spouse, until they recognise the pattern of attracting into their lives horrible people and STOP allowing abusive people into their lives and thoughts.

Once one has recognised this pattern, this is the time of transformation, learning to break the abusive draining cycle, which will automatically clear the blockages in their lives. Their life and soul is guarenteed to always blossom to have an amazing life, once they learn to use and control the mind and thoughts. The secret to a successful life is the control over our own mind and thoughts. This is the reason given in "Kabbala", why the greatest, kindest and most loving creative people come from "rotten" selfish parents.

If one has "rotten" abusive and selfish parents, do not despair ! The spiritual guarentee in your life is that you have been blessed with the necessary gifts to escape the negativity and abusivness, to join a life of loving kindness of great creative achievement. Provided you use you mind wisely to continually have "Closure" from abusers and be constantly in control of your thoughts.

This category also applies if one has been brought up in a "closed and narrow-minded" family of "religious fanatics" of any religion. Parents and teachers who brainwash their children using "religion" are as corrupt and even more dangerous as destructive users and abusers. As they "use the guilt of religion", when in reality they are preventing freedom of speech and action.

GOD created the world with all different kinds of people, we are all destined to be different from each other. So NO-ONE has the right to order another person to confirm to brainwashed rules and regulations that have NO spiritual meaning. Many religious fanatics are no better than fascism in the fact that, they force people to believe in destructive or negative laws and promote hate, violence, death and intolerance against people who dont follow their hateful ways.

So simply learn to analyse the thoughts you are allowing into your mind and question the "brainwashing" material wherever it comes from ! Then you will develope your own unique compassionate and loving soul , and find spiritual enlightenment away from the past abusers.

( With respect to our usage of the word "rotten" parents , the Sefer Shinuyim quotes the Zohar Devarim Parsha Ki Tetze and the Talmud Sotah 49a, that at the time of completion of people learning their lessons on earth at the time of "Moshiach" that the most righteous and good children will be into families with evil and rotten parents).

Clear the "Baggage" and "Trash"

Provided one has cleared all the "baggage" or emotional "trash" out of ones mind by debrainwashing and one refuses to allow any Loss by "Transference" , whilst keeping closed to the past traumas and focusing on Happiness and Life of Love then one will feel when the time is right to open up emotionally and start to live life again !

It does happen for everyone ! Everyone has "second chances" in life at the ages of 30 and again at the age of 40 and 50 and 60 !

This is especially true in our modern generation, as we have seen so many people change at all ages of life, whom have been married to the "wrong" person, all they had in common was a "sexual relationship", as soon as that thrill "wears off" they recognise that they have nothing in common with each other, starting to live seperate lives and closing down their emotions, until it becomes unbearable and divorce inevitable. After making the decision to close a door on the past, they are always blessed by having a new door open with a really loving soulmate relationship and successful purpose in life.

Provided one is honest with oneself, and listens to ones true spiritual inner guidance, making the necessary changes that are specifically right for YOU. We add this adamently - especially for our generation when there are so many useless so called "spiritual leaders", as no rabbi, priest or minister of religion has the right to tell you what to do, each person is uniquely created by GOD, and has their own specific destiny that is correct for their soul. Books and knowledge are simply meant to guide the person to make their specific freewill choice. Learning to "grow-up" means making ones own freewill choices and not being brainwashed by any religion or religious leaders. The main reason why so many people have arrived at midlife crisis is that they have found themselves "living other peoples lives instead of living their own destiny.

2. "Laziness" - carelessness allows in "trash" and negative thoughts.

In the book "The Pathway of the Correct" - MesillasYeshorim מסילת ישרים by Reb Moshe Chaim Luzzatto, each chapter explains the following Mishne at the end of Talmud Sotah 49b, this passage explains the pathway to being spiritual enlightenment :-

"Rebi Pinchas ben Yair says the pathway starts with eagerness and aliveness, never being lazy or slow, this aliveness will bring one to cleanliness, not just a physical cleanliness but also a spiritual cleanliness of ones soul ...."

Keep your mind active and alive

Think carefully and analyse all the messages you are receiving in your mind and thoughts. As we teach on the page Closure , one can learn to be in a place physically which is negative and depressive, but if ones mind is closed to this negativity, is focused and thinking about somewhere beautiful, then one will feel the aliveness of the positive place and situation. This is one of the reasons why so many people escape the reality of their lives and watch TV and films. As they feel energised being somewhere else in their mind.

Always remember, your mind is your private space, only you have access to this sacred individual space. Use this space wisely, empty the trash out regularly, safeguard it from trash coming in and furnish it with life enhancing, happy and beautiful images.

3. Avoid the fatal illness of

"Half alive - Half dead"

Avoid Grey Sickness:- half awake, half asleep ; half alive, half dead. Realise that energy sags when your thoughts sag, so vigilantly keep your thinking alert.

By keeping oneself "positive thinking and alive" in a happy state of mind, one can keep ones soul connected to the spiritual Divine energy of aliveness and vitality.

This principle is the essence of Rebi Pinchas ben Yair as quoted above in hebrew, who says the pathway starts with eagerness and aliveness! Its not just enough, to avoid laziness, but one should be careful to always live the aliveness feeling throughout the whole day !

Thankfully many people are bored and are "fed-up" with their lives and jobs, and are searching for spiritual answers ( especially those of you who continually read our websites whilst totally bored with your office jobs). You certainly know what is meant by "grey sickness"!

So find ways to come alive and STAY alive throughout the whole day. Once you succeed in staying ALIVE, then the boredom of your life will transform magically into alivness. Your soul will stop blocking your progress and opportunities of love, success and creative purposeful aliveness will come into your life.

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